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Peej's Cell Phone Angel Story- Thank you Angles! - http://www.readingswithpeej.com

2/24/2014

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Written on Dec 18, 2013 
So one night, a few weeks ago, after I got done at the office I was driving home.  I don't use cards or tools, I work with Spirit, energy, and so sometimes I'm physically and energetically drained because I work with use my body.  With this being said, most days I'm in the office I really don't feel like going home and cooking, honestly I love cooking, but after I work it's really hard for me to stand there and even harder to clean up the mess after. Sometimes dishes sit in the sink for days.  I have issues standing, but that's a different subject for another blog, lol anyway- I stopped to get gas in my black on black cool rental car. Which by the way is a boat and was very hard to parallel park!  
Reason for a rental: A few weeks earlier I had gone to the store and after I shopped I went to exit my parking spot as I go to back up I hear a scraping noise under my car. I didn't think anything of it. I got home unloaded my groceries and when I had to leave later as I went to get back into my car, I notice my whole bumper was hanging off! Completely dismantled, so I had to call the store and explain what happened. He said that he needed to watch the video and call me back. When he did he said they'd fix it, but they had to put a claim into their insurance company. 
Then I brought my car in and got a rental car, and well of course, I pick the nicest car on the lot.  A brand new black on black 2014 charger. Okay- back to my Angel story... I worked that day and was feeling wiped so while driving I decided to place a togo food order for dinner. I stopped for gas, but I couldn't figure out how to put gas in this car... DUH! Where's the gas door release button? It was nowhere to be found! I'm looking, looking.... but I can't find any button. I had to call my friend that has a fiancé with a Charger to find the magic button. 
(By now I just want to be done with this day because it's been kind of a discombobulating.) Lucky for me she answered, thank you Angels. I'm able to pump my gas, but when I was getting out of the car, my phone rang and I saw that it was the lady from the restaurant that I ordered the food from, so I answer. .. I let her know that I was pumping gas and I would be there momentarily, because I was right down the street. When I hung up I placed the black phone on top of the black on black car, and pumped my gas. 
Then I proceeded to get a receipt, the machine wasn't working, so I let the attendant know. Meanwhile, I get back into the car, completely forgetting the phone because it's a black phone on a black on black car! and I drive off, and of course I'm in a brand new charger so I gas it! Hello! Who wouldn't, right?! LOL
Then I hear this "CLUNK" "CLUNK" and I think "Oh s***! was that was my phone?!"  So I try to find my phone in the dark, while driving and trying to watch the road, which wasn't working so I pulled over...I can't find it ! I knew that noise was my phone darn it!  I quickly turn around and I go up and down the street multiple times. I don't see it anywhere! So I call my son in a complete panicked frenzy, from my work cell phone, thank God I have another cell phone! I tell him that I need to come and get him, because I left my phone on top of the car and now it's on the street somewhere. I am completely freaking out because it has all of my emails and numbers, and more so because a few weeks prior my blackberry just decided one night to delete two years of pictures and videos! Just on its own! Ta da just like that GONE! So at this point I'm having a post traumatic syndrome episode. 
(Which by the way I bought a new phone, I have had blackberries for the last 5 or 6 years and after it just deleted a huge chunk of my life, memories and what felt like part of my soul ripped out of me- I will never ever ever again buy a blackberry ever ever ever!!)
Okay soooooo I get him and we drive up and down in the area I heard the "clunk clunk" and my son says, "Mom I don't think it's on the street." I snapped, "Well where do you think it went?! It has to be, because I heard it right around this area." 
He says, "Maybe it's at the gas staton, plus if it did, there would be a thousand pieces on the street because it would have shattered if you were gassing it when it fell." 
Obviously I wanted to find my phone even if it's in a thousand pieces, so we drove up and down the street multiple times. I kept thinking, "Why Angels, why is this happening to me? Please help me find my phone Angels please!" 
If I found it, at least I could get the sim card and the memory card. Then my son says, "Mom, why don't you pull into the gas station where there is lights maybe it feel off there."
I was reluctant, and I snapped, "It feel off when I was on this street, I heard it!"
He says just pull in there real quick so we can check. So I did, reluctantly. I said I pumped gas right there. He gets out. As he proceeds towards the back of the vehicle, out of habit I glance in my rear view mirror and I see this little square that just so happened to be my blackberry! As my son also notices it at that exact moment! He grabs it, and now I'm saying thank you Angels! Thank you God! He hops back into the car and says, "Mom, that was your a Angels for sure! That was what I call our Angels at work, a miracle! Do you know how small that little lip was that held onto this phone?" I said, "Yes!" He says, "I can't believe that little lip held onto that phone!" I said, "Yep and thank you Angels!"
Both of us were just in complete shock! 
I thought this is another one of my Angel stories I need to share and blog about, so I got out and snapped a few pictures to attach.

My Angels always surprise me with their amazing powers and abilities to save, protect, guide, help and fix things!

Thank you, thank you, thank you God's Angels!

I always say, Angels are like neighbors. We know they're there but most times we don't acknowledge them or communicate with them. We know we have neighbors, but we just ignore them. Same thing with our Angels. 
We need to make a connection with them, and communicate with them. Acknowledge them.

It's real simple. YOU ASK, AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE! YOU DON'T ASK- YOU DON'T RECEIVE!

When in session, the Angels will tell me when someone needs to communicate with Angels and when they do I always tell my clients, it's real simple! 
And one of my Spirit Guides always share analogies to explain. So here is one. ..
You know there are neighbors next door and all around you. We can live in a house for three years and never meet or even greet your neighbor. Most often we just mind our own business and pretend we have tunnel vision when we see a neighbor waking to their car or watering their lawn. We just mind our own biz wax (aka business) lol and that's exactly what we do with our Angels and Spirit Guides. 
If you want to make contact with your Angels, and I was using the neighbor analogy, but please apply it to your Angels. Introduce yourself to your Angels. Say hi. 
We need to communicate with them! If it be your neighbors or your Angels, we need to acknowledge them and in this case we're using it in a context of our neighbors, but paying attention to the energy not the words. So back to my Angels. 
The first step is knowing we have them. Second we have to acknowledge them by doing that we learn about them, ask about them and imagine them. Then we can make contact with them, so that we can start to have a connection with them. Then communicate with them. Talk to them. Believe in them, trust them.  Depend on them by asking them for help. And then always thank them. This is the most important part- noticing their efforts and their amazing powers or gifts and thanking them. We need to thank them and praise them and talk about them. Share with them. Love them. We are born with our own personal Angels. Doreen Virtue talks a lot about Angels! She has a lot o of amazing Angel information in her books including her Angel numbers book, which I own. My Angels always show me 444, especially when I'm working on babies at the hospitals. And I see 333 a lot. I used to always see 222 a few years ago and I'd always wake up and the clock would show 222am. Those are my Angels talking to me.

Okay- back to the neighbor analogy... We know they are there... We want to acknowledge and want them to be a part of our lives, so the next time you are planning on having a garage sale aka communicating with your Angels, you can go over and ring their door bell and when they answer, because Angels always do...And the neighbors answer the door too lol
You say, "Hi I'm your neighbor, my name is...and I just wanted to say hi and let you know that we're having a garage sale on the third Saturday of next month. They say hi...bla bla bla and you conversate, then they say thank you for the invite and you go home and continue on with your day. But now you have made a connection. That's the hardest part acknowledging they are there and making that connection.  But the good news is once you do, it all comes naturally and flows all so naturally!

Then you make a point to talk to them.  In context of your neighbors, as your walking to your can and you see them, you can just wave to say hello, and in context of your Angels you can imagine them in front of you or in your mind's eye and you just simply say hello. That's acknowledging them, making contact with them, and being friendly and communicating with them.  Saying hello- which is growing a friendship with them. Same with your Angels, you talk to them and share your thoughts, desires, dreams and needs and wants with them. 
Another neighbors example is when you have that garage sale, once they bring their stuff out to sell you walk over say hi while browsing around to see what treasures they decided to part with. They offer you some lemon aid, you get to talking and you find out their daughter goes to the same dance studio and they offer to trade off certain days with you, saving you the trip. What a blessing! You made a connection and now they offered to help get your daughter to dance. You feel great about meeting, and getting to know your neighbors after living there for two years not so much as acknowledging them! They give your daughter a ride, you thank them. And the same goes with God's Angels. When they do something like my phone incident, I thank them! So always remember to say thank you!

Okay so a month later your getting ready to start your car one morning and the battery is dead. You're in a rush. You see Bob, your neighbor, that you made a connection with and you say, hey can you give me a jump? Asking for help. He gladly says yes, jumps your car, you thank him and you're on your way and feeling very blessed. 
What a great feeling that is to have made a connection, and asked and then to receive. 
Same goes with your Angels. 
You make a connection, communicate, ask and you shall receive. It's that simple!

I always call on 100,000 of God's Angels whenever I do a session. I have an amazing connection with my Angels. I love my Angels! They are amazingly awesome!

Thank you God for your Angels, they are amazing!



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9/2/2013

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Here are some quotes that touched my heart

"What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.” ~ Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy 

"Don't take a good woman for granted. Someday someone will come along and appreciate what you didn't." ♥

"Knowing that Love is the strongest force in the universe. It can be used to create anything in your world. You can only find the answers you seek in life in this place, your heart. It is the truth, freedom and happiness you seek. It erases all illusions and brings you to a new world of peace and union. It is the essence of Pure Light which has no distortions."
~Unknown

"Once a man has won a woman's love, the love is his forever. He can only lose the woman."
-- Robert Brault

"A woman is like a tea bag: you cannot tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water." ~Eleanor Roosevelt

"You may be only one person in this world, but to one, you are the world"

-Unknown

"There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future” 
~Unknown

"In everyone’s life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.”
~Albert Schweitzer

"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
Buddha

"There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
~Unknown

"One problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on us.”
~Michael Cibenko

"If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one."
~Unknown

'The things that people in love do to each other they remember, and if they stay together it's not because they forget, it's because they forgive."
from the movie."
~"Indecent Proposal"

"May we see with our hearts today, seeing & honoring the sacred essence in each person we encounter - and in the one we see in the mirror."
~Oriah Mountain Dreamer

"A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other persons. You go into the relationship together and work through it all together."
~Unknown

"To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this."
-Source Unknown

"Love is like a golden chain that link our hearts together and if you ever break that chain, you'll break my heart forever."
-Source Unknown

Time is only a four-letter word. Although we have to be apart, time cannot take you from my heart. I sit and I wait until we are together again, and make 'our time' with a fresh new start!"
-Source Unknown

Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy. It is often filled with anger and tears. It is when you want to be together despite it all. That is when you are truly in love."
-Source Unknown

And even though I know how very far apart we are, it helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star. And when the night winds start to sing a lonesome lullaby, it helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky. Somewhere out there, if love can see us through then, we'll be together ... Somewhere out there, out where dreams, come true.
-from the movie, "An American Tale

"If I were to rearrange the alphabet, I'd put, 'U' and 'I' together."
~Unknown

"Love can tear you apart... it can kill you. But if you’re lucky, it can put you back together."
-Source Unknown

"Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others."
- Jacob M. Braude

"Your level of optimism is determined by how you explain things to yourself. Think positively."  ~Brian Tracy

"I was worthless, until I decided to be worth more." 
~Kim Jeffery

"Make sure your worst enemy doesn't live between your own two ears. 
-Laird Hamilton

"Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Life is to short to be anything but short.
~Unknown

"Failure is not the opposite of success but part if it."
~Unknown

"Never apologize for showing feeling.  When you do so, you apologize for the truth." 
-- Benjamin Disraeli

"Sometimes the hardest thing is to know which bridge to cross, and which one to burn."
—David Russel

"You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses."
~Unknown

"When life fails you, don't you have that special one person that keeps you hanging in there? And if you don't, maybe you're that person for someone else. So, when the world turns its back on you and you're ready to surrender, please just remember that you're not just fighting for yourself ... but for that someone too, because once you're gone nothing is keeping them from disappearing too."
~Source Unknown

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
— Mahatma Gandhi

"Dream as big as you want to, but don't let anyone or anything stop you."
~Source Unknown

"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
 H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

"Hope is that thing with feathers that perches in the soul and sings the tune without the words and never stops... at all."
 ~Emily Dickinson

"When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown

"God only makes happy endings. If it's not happy, then it's not the end!"
~Source Unknown

"The only restriction is the limitation in your beliefs that prevents you from breaking free from self-made imprisonment."  
~Doreen Virtue

"I wish that you were here or that I were there, or that we were together anywhere!
~Unknown

"If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one."
~Unknown

"I really hope he calls today, so I can hang up on him."
 Ally McBeal

"My dear, I used to think I was serving humanity . . . and I pleasured in the thought. Then I discovered that humanity does not want to be served; on the contrary it resents any attempt to serve it. So now I do what pleases myself."
~ Robert A. Heinlein (Stranger in a Strange Land)

"When you are able to shift your inner awareness to how you can serve others, and when you make this the central focus of your life, you will then be in a position to know true miracles in your progress toward prosperity."
— Wayne W. Dyer

"Help someone, you earn a friend. Help someone too much, you make an enemy."
— Erol Ozan

"There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills."
Buddha

"Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness".
Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Even the rich are hungry for love, for being cared for, for being wanted, for having someone to call their own."
Mother Teresa

"Everybody has a PURPOSE in LIFE...even if its just to serve as a REALLY bad example."(LOL)
♥

"Happiness is a function of accepting what is.
Love is a function of communication.
Health is a function of participation.
Self expression is a function of responsibility."
~ Werner Erhard,

"Anger: Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back -- in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you."
~ Frederick Buechner

"It's never what people do that make us angry; it's what we tell ourselves about what they did."
~ Marshall Rosenberg

"Holding on to anger is like holding on to a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." ~Buddha
"You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space"
~ Johnny Cash

"When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.”  ~Alexander Graham Bell

"True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.”
~Unknown

"Every day we have the opportunity to explore the limits of what we know, or...to create something beyond what we know and who we've been, expressing ourselves fully, challenging existing assumptions, re-inventing the mold...being a YES."

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Life & Life's Lessons

9/2/2013

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This is a blog I actually wrote about two years ago- before I even had a blog.  I hve shared it with two or three people but I thought i'd post it here. 
(and without reading it again and editing it..hhhaha)

Life lessons:
We all have lessons to learn. The things that are so difficult for us are only lessons we have chosen for ourselves. If things are easy for us, then they are not lessons but are things we already know."  -Louise Hay
 
I believe prior to entering this lifetime we have a contract of life lessons mapped out for us. I believe good and bad all have a rhyme or reason.
I have this vision of us, our soul, Mother Mary, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and several angels sitting at a table as if it were a typical friday
morning meeting at the work place. And the "plan" which will eventually become your life, once it has been mutually agreed upon, will eventually be "you" a living, loving, laughing being.
Then there is the anticipation of waiting for your number to be called.  And "bingo!" *poof* you are sliding down the canal, through the clouds, into the light, into a body, a new world, with some old, but definitely new lessons to experience, grow, and learn from.  A set of maybe, unexpected talents and gifts.  A whole new world. A whole new fresh start, a new life path.

A life full of surprises and just the unknown gives me scary and exciting feelings all at once !
New life lessons.
Makes me think of a time before when i just could not understand why a situation was so difficult and I couldn't imagine how I was going to get through this" a popular thought I have recited a few times "why me God?" Also comes to mind. ..  But now I look back and realize I actually got through it all. I succeeded!  Even after all the thoughts and anxiety of how difficult it seemed at the time. Replaying it in my mind over and over. Like a broken record.  Most times you can look back, knowing in your heart and seeing that you grew from it. You may even look back and say, "that wasn't as bad as I thought it was at the time!"
And then there are those stubborn life lessons we still haven't mastered. I believe we will get to them, and if not they will be brought to the table (the meeting, next life time) if we don't learn from them.
Life lessons are sort of a bitter but  sweet fruit.
We all have been there, whether it be taking on a new position at work, learning something new, breaking off an unhealthy relationship or learning something new.
At first, it feels difficult because it is a shift from the norm, or maybe because it is an unexpected change.  Most times these things promote growth.
You have to have faith and know things are in line with the universe. The way they were meant to be. We may not understand the reason at the time, but they are all happening for a reason. Know it is divine timing.
A simple way of looking at it is by remembering back, as a little itsy bitsy...crawling around.  What if you chose not to take a chance and attempt to take a step to walk? Resisting because what your doing is working, and out of fear you chose not to take a chance, you won't attempt to stand or take a step. And maybe because you saw another fall and get hurt and even cry.  You may even have tried it and fell and hurt yourself. So out of fear, you avoid. why change things? "I mean, you can crawl over there to get the toy, so your fine,  right? Where do you think you would be now if you never took the chance to change and those first steps and fall a few times?
Change could seem difficult, but know this...
 once you make a choice, because it is a choice or decide to take on life's lessons with acceptance, love and light then you will truly understand that "The key to happiness is accepting what is"  
Which is a qoute my fvorite professor in college, Randy Fujishin once shared with me, and it has stuck to my mind, body, and soul... so I now I put it on my business cards.


Sending love & light,
Peej
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Facebook AKA Noseybook!

9/2/2013

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I have several blogs that I have wrote, but I never post them.  One reason is that I am a horrible speller, but I am an honor student, so I write it, then I have to edit it, sleep on it, then edit it again...then I get busy and forget I ever had a blog to post.. plus it doesn't help that I hate being in front of this computer. 
 
My Angels have been giving me little reminders here and there though to post.
A few days ago a lady called wanting to schedule a session with me. While talking she said that she really enjoyed reading my blogs.  I thought that was really nice of her to say that, as I heard that litttle voice say, "You need to post the five or six blogs you have on your blackberry."
Then again- today I decided to go onto NoseyBook AKA FaceBook and I saw a post from a friend (Donald) talking about deleting people off of his page that basically vent their dirty laundry or have a bunch of negative bla bla crap to post... AND AGAIN...I heard...."See Peej you need to share your blog about this...
Another hint to post my blogs.  It was almost like what Donald said on his facebook status mirrored exactly what I was saying in my blog... so here it is..

"I'm not much of a facebooker, because I don't have a whole lot of free time, but I do go on here and there. Sometimes just to see how my friends are, to read some amazing quotes that people post, or just because I'm sitting some place waiting and I decide to hop on for a minute or two.
I refer to facebook as nosey book. One of the reasons I don't go on facebook that often is because I feel like its almost like turning on the 10 o'clock news.  Sometimes it's disturbing what some people post!  I don't watch the news because its a lot of negativity but mostly because I am an empath and when I see or hear things I feel that person's pain in my body.  That's why I stay away from malls, and news etc.  Plus- what I notice is some people use facebook to vent their dirty laundry hahaha or should I say personal drama and they also say or post things/picture of things that they normally would not say in their "real person" voice to a "real" person's face.  Passive aggressive behavior (tI witnessed wo people doing this) and it's just annoying!  The whole "f-U... Bla bla bla" like they're posting a shout out to their enemy! Its sometimes annoying, but then we have to send them good energy or pray for them.  I feel sorry for them, because they want to vent and in my opinion that's what a close friend, sister, or mother is for... to tell them what's happening in your life...(Again- just in my opinion.) And then of course we have those friends that pretend they care and use you and what you have to offer when it benefits them and then they get a boyfriend and POOF they disappear..  It somehow becomes sort of self tunnel vision of me, me and my life.  It becomes a drain because they forgot how to care or give back to the people they care about, or cared about them when it was convenient for them!  Stay away from those Sneaky lil devils! Haha now I'm venting seeeee.  
But really, those types of friends that I speak of, I hold no negative energy towards.  I wish them nothing but love and happiness.  I am thankful for what they have shown me during our times together,   Now I'm careful what I put out, and to better my focus on whom I choose to be in my close circle of friend and how much time and energy I put into a friendship.  
Anyway- point of the matter- don't post your personal drama on Facebook people!  And we all have drama...let me tell ya- I could post some serious drama daily hahah... 
Anyway- I guess what I'm saying is don't share the crap on Facebook..Tell that person in private what they did to upset you or hurt you.  Maybe they didn't know that they hurt you.  Or call a friend and vent it to them. But really you should communicate with that person that did something that pissed you off or hurt you. Especially if that person was a good friend to you at one time or another. They deserve to know what they did to piss you off, which translates to really hurt you.  If anything out of respect for yourself. (sorry I now feel like I'm preaching hahah but I guess that's what happens when you have a communication degree haha.
Anyway- back the topic on hand... The main reason why I really don't enjoy facebook, is because there is a lot of negativity BUT let's get this straight I do see positives too!  Just not often enough!

Here is something I saw on facebook, that I thought was pretty cool and am so grateful to have read this on "nosey book" so I thought I vent a little and then share. hahaha JK!  But really it has activated a lot of energy and feelings with my soul so thought I'd share....

"One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.
He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!"

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - you have to forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - (I'm adding... most times this never happens because so many people don't meditate daily.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.  (I want to add... This means focus on what you have not what you don't!

4. Give more.  (I want to add... I always so I am of love and light.  I am a very generous person and every once in a while I have to stop and say does this person appreciate me and what I have to offer because it tricky "give more" means give to the people that honor and respect what you bring to the plate. And if they don't, don't give more. There has to be a balance. Give, take, give, take. Even a give, take, give, give, take is okay once in a while but there has to be an exchange. I can talk about this for hours because this has been a huge life lesson for me.  Example that comes to mind- I had a friend, well what I called a friend, that I have read a few times, oh don't let me forget the most important part, for FREE, which is normal for me... I've gone and did several free property reads for another friend for FREE too!  What I have noticed in my experience with several of my so-called "friends" is that they get free readings from me and they forget that a reading or any messages from a medium or psychic is a "service" just because they don't have a pair of scissors in there hand doesn't mean they are not providing a service. And the hardest part I have experienced is that they come to expect it, as if its just free advise from their friend.  One day a few years ago, I was with one so called "friend" doing free property reads for her, which don't get me wrong, I could have said, "I want X amount of dollars" but I didn't expect payment, and back to what I was saying... I was doing a property reading for one "friend" and I was supposed to read another "friend" at my house at 1. When I attempted to call the friend to let her know to come at 130 she didn't answer.  So I left a message advising.  Well to my surprise I got a response via text telling me all kinds of crap about if I did this to her, I would be mad bla bla bla. To sum it up- aparently this "friend" forgot that I was providing her a "free" service and again back to what I said earlier, it became about that person and what they were not getting.  When it should have been about what they were getting!  A caring friend that was giving you a free reading!  I swear this has been a repeated lesson for me and has been an eye opener for me.   Now I do not read anyone for free!  You need to give back some how, even if its painting a wall in my house. Give, take, give, take is what I wrote earlier but really its "give, give back, give, give back" so that you both give.  Which is not always the case. And the universe will extract those takers and the funniest part is that the takers sometimes extract themselves from your owesomeness because they are too much inside their narcissistic personality disorder heads, to see what is gong on outside their hollow shell hahah
And not all of them were take, take. Some gave too!  But I think the main problem was they didn't have an open heart or empathy to my side of the situation.   To sympathize is easy, when you have experience that pain of another, but to empathize, that is a gift. Or is a curse hahaha I often say, "its great inside my office- its makes me an amazing reader but sucks in real life, like at the mall or when watching those stupid shows where kids slam into a wall on a skateboard being stupid!
I know another Medium that has a rule, that she does not read friends. Maybe that will be my rule some day?  I think the most important thing I've learned is balance.


5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.  (My take on this, is that this is a tricky one. I think you should not expect anything and then you should expect a lot. Especially if its around respecting one another. I respect you a lot and I expect a lot of respect back hahha!!  This has been a huge life lesson for me.  I expect people to mirror me.  Im of love & light, very giving and caring.  I help you babysit your kids so that you can go on vacation...one (me) naturally expects that in the future when I need a sitter to go on vacation, you (the person I babysat for) would naturally want to return the favor....And I've had to learn the hard way that this just isn't the way it works!



Moral of the bla bla bla is....In life you have two eyes, two ears, two.... two choices...always two different roads to take.... two words to remember when asked too many favors "I can't"... and always two ways of looking at things.... YOU CHOOSE!!!!



Sending love & light,
(and that's a choice too!)
Peej <3
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