I'm sorry is a set of words that people blurt out on demand when needed.  When saying I'm sorry, there needs to be a certain emotion and energy that comes with those words.
There is a feeling and emotion that one puts out to the person  receiving the apology.  
When YOU realize that you have made a mistake or have done something to hurt someone another words you've done something you shouldn't have done, you say I'm sorry.   Is that a reaction which is a set of words you learned to throw out when someone responds with pain or a negative emotion?  

I'm sorry has to be a feeling and an emotion that you feel deep inside your heart.  That feeling has to comes from your mind, body and soul.  YOU say you're sorry because you feel their pain or your pain.  It's packed with heartfelt energy.

When someone tells us we did something to hurt them we may say sorry- because its the right thing to do.  I'm not saying that this is wrong I'm simply saying that if it isn't from your mind, body and soul and that emotion from inside that triggers those I'm sorry words.  If not then it's most likely from your mind that logical side that tells you that you did something wrong and hurt that person so after that out comes these words.  They are a learned reaction to an action.  The ears send a message to the brain, that then tells the mouth to say something.  It's because they are telling me it hurts so therefore when this action gets that reaction I say this!  Two plus two equals four!

To say sorry and mean it is very important but more importantly after you say it, and only when you mean it, you need to ask if that person you apologized to accepts your apology,  Very important step a lot of people are unaware of so it gets skipped.  Which means we don't know if it was received.

Saying sorry not only allows that person to release the pain or hurt but it also allows you to release it.  There is a great amount of healing that comes from admitting you were wrong or wronged someone and to come to terms with it and to be vulnerable enough to open up your heart is very healing for them but more for your mind, body and soul.  But remember only if you really feel that emotion not if it a reaction to an action.

I am sorry if I hurt you.  I really didn't mean it.

Thank you for reading and I hope that you learned something from reading my blogs.

I'm send you blessings.
Peej

Did you know that your kid/s are Psychic?  Yes they are!  They have very good senses for what is good or bad feeling and their filters aren't there yet.  So they will blurt out what they feel, which I think is pretty funny sometimes!  
They are especially tuned into what is not so good for the people they care most about- YOU their parent and they WILL tell you how they feel.  
If you are in a relationship and your Psychic kid/s don't like your partner, you should listen to them, because there's a reason why their spidey senses are telling them something negative.
Kids are very intuitive, which is another word for Psychic.  They are completely clear and they most likely have a reason why they don't like that person so if you're in a relationship and you don't know if it's the perfect one or if he or she is the right one or the one that you should be in and your intuition is getting mixed up and conflicts with your emotions.  
A good way to get direction is consider how your friends or Psychic kids feel about that person you're in relationship with.  (Which also means friendship relationship)  Because if they don't like the person you're involved in a relationship with, then maybe you need to start listening to your gut feeling because if they're reading that that person is not good for you nine and a half times out of 10 you know that person is not good for you.  That does NOT mean that they aren't a good person, it just means that they are not a good person for you.  There's a reason why you're holding on to that person and I don't know what the reason is, but sometimes we don't know what the reason is. Maybe it's that you aren't good with change.
Maybe this is a personal issue you need to look at.  Why doesn't my Psychic kid like this person that I'm in a relationship.  You can look at yourself in the mirror and say why am I in this relationship?  What is this person doing for me?  What does this person bring into my life? Are they adding to the quality of my life or subtracting from it?  Are they teaching me to listen to my own intuition? and an example of that would be.. are they teaching me to know when someone's lying are they saying that they're faithful and I know that they're not.  Are they saying that they are at a friends house and your spidey senses are telling you it doesn't feel like the truth?  Do you feel suspicious?  I call that your spidey senses which also known as your intuition.  When your gut is telling you that this person is doing something wrong, and nine and a half times. ..I mean I meant to say 99.999 percent of when you think someone's not being honest, YOU ARE RIGHT.  That is your intuition talking to you and you need to honor that because your intuition is a God given gift.  I know for some of you change is really difficult, but if someone isn't bringing positive, peace, love and light into the relationship you have with them, then we need to let them go.  It's kind of like the analogy that I use of when your the boss of your own company.  If an employees isn't adding to the production, positivity, and the growth of the company you need to consider putting them on a 30-day probation period or give them a two week notice.  After that two weeks you let them go and if you do a 30-day probation then you do an assessment and evaluate if they're doing their job and adding to the positivity of the business you keep them.  If they causing conflict or negativity?  Then we make that change and let them go.  
I mean that's something that a lot of us need to do in our personal lives, but we don't because we get comfortable we have a little reasons of why we don't make change but sometimes change is good.
Especially when our Psychic kid/s share and are completely honest, especially if they are under 16 years old. Their filter is not there. So please listen to them. Trust them. They have your best intention and love is unconditional. They are a blessing to us.

Letting go is hard and once we decide a change is in order or once we accept there is a problem ..then change.  And sometimes it takes years to shift or change or to accomplish once we do succeed we feel at peace.  

I'm a Spiritual Healer, Medium, Communication Studies & Life Coach with some amazing Angels & Guides.  I always say ask your Angels to guide you, and say show me the way, and protect me, really helps.   And ceremonies are always needed to set it all free.

Let go. 

Change is good.  Harmony and family are very important for our souls to sing.

I'm sending love and light, 
Peej