Did you know that your kid/s are Psychic?  Yes they are!  They have very good senses for what is good or bad feeling and their filters aren't there yet.  So they will blurt out what they feel, which I think is pretty funny sometimes!  
They are especially tuned into what is not so good for the people they care most about- YOU their parent and they WILL tell you how they feel.  
If you are in a relationship and your Psychic kid/s don't like your partner, you should listen to them, because there's a reason why their spidey senses are telling them something negative.
Kids are very intuitive, which is another word for Psychic.  They are completely clear and they most likely have a reason why they don't like that person so if you're in a relationship and you don't know if it's the perfect one or if he or she is the right one or the one that you should be in and your intuition is getting mixed up and conflicts with your emotions.  
A good way to get direction is consider how your friends or Psychic kids feel about that person you're in relationship with.  (Which also means friendship relationship)  Because if they don't like the person you're involved in a relationship with, then maybe you need to start listening to your gut feeling because if they're reading that that person is not good for you nine and a half times out of 10 you know that person is not good for you.  That does NOT mean that they aren't a good person, it just means that they are not a good person for you.  There's a reason why you're holding on to that person and I don't know what the reason is, but sometimes we don't know what the reason is. Maybe it's that you aren't good with change.
Maybe this is a personal issue you need to look at.  Why doesn't my Psychic kid like this person that I'm in a relationship.  You can look at yourself in the mirror and say why am I in this relationship?  What is this person doing for me?  What does this person bring into my life? Are they adding to the quality of my life or subtracting from it?  Are they teaching me to listen to my own intuition? and an example of that would be.. are they teaching me to know when someone's lying are they saying that they're faithful and I know that they're not.  Are they saying that they are at a friends house and your spidey senses are telling you it doesn't feel like the truth?  Do you feel suspicious?  I call that your spidey senses which also known as your intuition.  When your gut is telling you that this person is doing something wrong, and nine and a half times. ..I mean I meant to say 99.999 percent of when you think someone's not being honest, YOU ARE RIGHT.  That is your intuition talking to you and you need to honor that because your intuition is a God given gift.  I know for some of you change is really difficult, but if someone isn't bringing positive, peace, love and light into the relationship you have with them, then we need to let them go.  It's kind of like the analogy that I use of when your the boss of your own company.  If an employees isn't adding to the production, positivity, and the growth of the company you need to consider putting them on a 30-day probation period or give them a two week notice.  After that two weeks you let them go and if you do a 30-day probation then you do an assessment and evaluate if they're doing their job and adding to the positivity of the business you keep them.  If they causing conflict or negativity?  Then we make that change and let them go.  
I mean that's something that a lot of us need to do in our personal lives, but we don't because we get comfortable we have a little reasons of why we don't make change but sometimes change is good.
Especially when our Psychic kid/s share and are completely honest, especially if they are under 16 years old. Their filter is not there. So please listen to them. Trust them. They have your best intention and love is unconditional. They are a blessing to us.

Letting go is hard and once we decide a change is in order or once we accept there is a problem ..then change.  And sometimes it takes years to shift or change or to accomplish once we do succeed we feel at peace.  

I'm a Spiritual Healer, Medium, Communication Studies & Life Coach with some amazing Angels & Guides.  I always say ask your Angels to guide you, and say show me the way, and protect me, really helps.   And ceremonies are always needed to set it all free.

Let go. 

Change is good.  Harmony and family are very important for our souls to sing.

I'm sending love and light, 
Peej

This is a blog I actually wrote about two years ago- before I even had a blog.  I hve shared it with two or three people but I thought i'd post it here. 
(and without reading it again and editing it..hhhaha)

Life lessons:
We all have lessons to learn. The things that are so difficult for us are only lessons we have chosen for ourselves. If things are easy for us, then they are not lessons but are things we already know."  -Louise Hay
 
I believe prior to entering this lifetime we have a contract of life lessons mapped out for us. I believe good and bad all have a rhyme or reason.
I have this vision of us, our soul, Mother Mary, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and several angels sitting at a table as if it were a typical friday
morning meeting at the work place. And the "plan" which will eventually become your life, once it has been mutually agreed upon, will eventually be "you" a living, loving, laughing being.
Then there is the anticipation of waiting for your number to be called.  And "bingo!" *poof* you are sliding down the canal, through the clouds, into the light, into a body, a new world, with some old, but definitely new lessons to experience, grow, and learn from.  A set of maybe, unexpected talents and gifts.  A whole new world. A whole new fresh start, a new life path.

A life full of surprises and just the unknown gives me scary and exciting feelings all at once !
New life lessons.
Makes me think of a time before when i just could not understand why a situation was so difficult and I couldn't imagine how I was going to get through this" a popular thought I have recited a few times "why me God?" Also comes to mind. ..  But now I look back and realize I actually got through it all. I succeeded!  Even after all the thoughts and anxiety of how difficult it seemed at the time. Replaying it in my mind over and over. Like a broken record.  Most times you can look back, knowing in your heart and seeing that you grew from it. You may even look back and say, "that wasn't as bad as I thought it was at the time!"
And then there are those stubborn life lessons we still haven't mastered. I believe we will get to them, and if not they will be brought to the table (the meeting, next life time) if we don't learn from them.
Life lessons are sort of a bitter but  sweet fruit.
We all have been there, whether it be taking on a new position at work, learning something new, breaking off an unhealthy relationship or learning something new.
At first, it feels difficult because it is a shift from the norm, or maybe because it is an unexpected change.  Most times these things promote growth.
You have to have faith and know things are in line with the universe. The way they were meant to be. We may not understand the reason at the time, but they are all happening for a reason. Know it is divine timing.
A simple way of looking at it is by remembering back, as a little itsy bitsy...crawling around.  What if you chose not to take a chance and attempt to take a step to walk? Resisting because what your doing is working, and out of fear you chose not to take a chance, you won't attempt to stand or take a step. And maybe because you saw another fall and get hurt and even cry.  You may even have tried it and fell and hurt yourself. So out of fear, you avoid. why change things? "I mean, you can crawl over there to get the toy, so your fine,  right? Where do you think you would be now if you never took the chance to change and those first steps and fall a few times?
Change could seem difficult, but know this...
 once you make a choice, because it is a choice or decide to take on life's lessons with acceptance, love and light then you will truly understand that "The key to happiness is accepting what is"  
Which is a qoute my fvorite professor in college, Randy Fujishin once shared with me, and it has stuck to my mind, body, and soul... so I now I put it on my business cards.


Sending love & light,
Peej

I have several blogs that I have wrote, but I never post them.  One reason is that I am a horrible speller, but I am an honor student, so I write it, then I have to edit it, sleep on it, then edit it again...then I get busy and forget I ever had a blog to post.. plus it doesn't help that I hate being in front of this computer. 
 
My Angels have been giving me little reminders here and there though to post.
A few days ago a lady called wanting to schedule a session with me. While talking she said that she really enjoyed reading my blogs.  I thought that was really nice of her to say that, as I heard that litttle voice say, "You need to post the five or six blogs you have on your blackberry."
Then again- today I decided to go onto NoseyBook AKA FaceBook and I saw a post from a friend (Donald) talking about deleting people off of his page that basically vent their dirty laundry or have a bunch of negative bla bla crap to post... AND AGAIN...I heard...."See Peej you need to share your blog about this...
Another hint to post my blogs.  It was almost like what Donald said on his facebook status mirrored exactly what I was saying in my blog... so here it is..

"I'm not much of a facebooker, because I don't have a whole lot of free time, but I do go on here and there. Sometimes just to see how my friends are, to read some amazing quotes that people post, or just because I'm sitting some place waiting and I decide to hop on for a minute or two.
I refer to facebook as nosey book. One of the reasons I don't go on facebook that often is because I feel like its almost like turning on the 10 o'clock news.  Sometimes it's disturbing what some people post!  I don't watch the news because its a lot of negativity but mostly because I am an empath and when I see or hear things I feel that person's pain in my body.  That's why I stay away from malls, and news etc.  Plus- what I notice is some people use facebook to vent their dirty laundry hahaha or should I say personal drama and they also say or post things/picture of things that they normally would not say in their "real person" voice to a "real" person's face.  Passive aggressive behavior (tI witnessed wo people doing this) and it's just annoying!  The whole "f-U... Bla bla bla" like they're posting a shout out to their enemy! Its sometimes annoying, but then we have to send them good energy or pray for them.  I feel sorry for them, because they want to vent and in my opinion that's what a close friend, sister, or mother is for... to tell them what's happening in your life...(Again- just in my opinion.) And then of course we have those friends that pretend they care and use you and what you have to offer when it benefits them and then they get a boyfriend and POOF they disappear..  It somehow becomes sort of self tunnel vision of me, me and my life.  It becomes a drain because they forgot how to care or give back to the people they care about, or cared about them when it was convenient for them!  Stay away from those Sneaky lil devils! Haha now I'm venting seeeee.  
But really, those types of friends that I speak of, I hold no negative energy towards.  I wish them nothing but love and happiness.  I am thankful for what they have shown me during our times together,   Now I'm careful what I put out, and to better my focus on whom I choose to be in my close circle of friend and how much time and energy I put into a friendship.  
Anyway- point of the matter- don't post your personal drama on Facebook people!  And we all have drama...let me tell ya- I could post some serious drama daily hahah... 
Anyway- I guess what I'm saying is don't share the crap on Facebook..Tell that person in private what they did to upset you or hurt you.  Maybe they didn't know that they hurt you.  Or call a friend and vent it to them. But really you should communicate with that person that did something that pissed you off or hurt you. Especially if that person was a good friend to you at one time or another. They deserve to know what they did to piss you off, which translates to really hurt you.  If anything out of respect for yourself. (sorry I now feel like I'm preaching hahah but I guess that's what happens when you have a communication degree haha.
Anyway- back the topic on hand... The main reason why I really don't enjoy facebook, is because there is a lot of negativity BUT let's get this straight I do see positives too!  Just not often enough!

Here is something I saw on facebook, that I thought was pretty cool and am so grateful to have read this on "nosey book" so I thought I vent a little and then share. hahaha JK!  But really it has activated a lot of energy and feelings with my soul so thought I'd share....

"One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.
He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!"

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - you have to forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - (I'm adding... most times this never happens because so many people don't meditate daily.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.  (I want to add... This means focus on what you have not what you don't!

4. Give more.  (I want to add... I always so I am of love and light.  I am a very generous person and every once in a while I have to stop and say does this person appreciate me and what I have to offer because it tricky "give more" means give to the people that honor and respect what you bring to the plate. And if they don't, don't give more. There has to be a balance. Give, take, give, take. Even a give, take, give, give, take is okay once in a while but there has to be an exchange. I can talk about this for hours because this has been a huge life lesson for me.  Example that comes to mind- I had a friend, well what I called a friend, that I have read a few times, oh don't let me forget the most important part, for FREE, which is normal for me... I've gone and did several free property reads for another friend for FREE too!  What I have noticed in my experience with several of my so-called "friends" is that they get free readings from me and they forget that a reading or any messages from a medium or psychic is a "service" just because they don't have a pair of scissors in there hand doesn't mean they are not providing a service. And the hardest part I have experienced is that they come to expect it, as if its just free advise from their friend.  One day a few years ago, I was with one so called "friend" doing free property reads for her, which don't get me wrong, I could have said, "I want X amount of dollars" but I didn't expect payment, and back to what I was saying... I was doing a property reading for one "friend" and I was supposed to read another "friend" at my house at 1. When I attempted to call the friend to let her know to come at 130 she didn't answer.  So I left a message advising.  Well to my surprise I got a response via text telling me all kinds of crap about if I did this to her, I would be mad bla bla bla. To sum it up- aparently this "friend" forgot that I was providing her a "free" service and again back to what I said earlier, it became about that person and what they were not getting.  When it should have been about what they were getting!  A caring friend that was giving you a free reading!  I swear this has been a repeated lesson for me and has been an eye opener for me.   Now I do not read anyone for free!  You need to give back some how, even if its painting a wall in my house. Give, take, give, take is what I wrote earlier but really its "give, give back, give, give back" so that you both give.  Which is not always the case. And the universe will extract those takers and the funniest part is that the takers sometimes extract themselves from your owesomeness because they are too much inside their narcissistic personality disorder heads, to see what is gong on outside their hollow shell hahah
And not all of them were take, take. Some gave too!  But I think the main problem was they didn't have an open heart or empathy to my side of the situation.   To sympathize is easy, when you have experience that pain of another, but to empathize, that is a gift. Or is a curse hahaha I often say, "its great inside my office- its makes me an amazing reader but sucks in real life, like at the mall or when watching those stupid shows where kids slam into a wall on a skateboard being stupid!
I know another Medium that has a rule, that she does not read friends. Maybe that will be my rule some day?  I think the most important thing I've learned is balance.

5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.  (My take on this, is that this is a tricky one. I think you should not expect anything and then you should expect a lot. Especially if its around respecting one another. I respect you a lot and I expect a lot of respect back hahha!!  This has been a huge life lesson for me.  I expect people to mirror me.  Im of love & light, very giving and caring.  I help you babysit your kids so that you can go on vacation...one (me) naturally expects that in the future when I need a sitter to go on vacation, you (the person I babysat for) would naturally want to return the favor....And I've had to learn the hard way that this just isn't the way it works!



Moral of the bla bla bla is....In life you have two eyes, two ears, two.... two choices...always two different roads to take.... two words to remember when asked too many favors "I can't"... and always two ways of looking at things.... YOU CHOOSE!!!!



Sending love & light,
(and that's a choice too!)
Peej <3

Happy New Year!
I hope everyone had a wonderful time ringing in the New Year with family and friends!  I was working at the Spanish Bay Inn event in Pebble Beach doing readings.  It was so much fun!  I met some wonderful souls!

Wow!! We’re already in week two of 2013!!  When I check-in with Spirit, I keep hearing, "slow down and smell the roses.”  We have been going through so much change, death, and renewal these last few months; such intense energy and shifting with the heightened sensitivities.  Now that the energy is calming and the shifting has lessened, change will not be as frequent or drastic, and there will be less drama!  With less drama in the next few months, time is going to feel smooth, as if it just flies by. 

Thank God this is the tail end of this roller coaster, energy spazzy, time period!

As I have said before, things are going to slow down in March. I get the feeling of how dust settles after a massive earthquake or disaster.  Afterward, we will start a renewal period in April.  Think of April showers, followed by the sun coming out.  It’s a feeling of new beginnings.  I see a beautiful flower blossoming for the first time. This means things will feel new and fresh, delightful and easy.  At last, things will flow and seem pleasant - unlike the last six months.  It’s the light at the end of the tunnel.  Yaaaay!  

Here is a new year's challenge for you... It will fuel your hearts’ desires, heal your inner soul, activate the love, and shift your energy forever.  Tell at least ten people “thank you,” every day, with a smile - for the next 22 days!  Thank people in your life for the things you are grateful for.  Every day!  It may be a stranger, a friend or a loved one.  Thank them for whatever it is you are grateful for...

If you don't plan on leaving your house, you may just have to call Safeway and ask if they have organic bananas so that you can say thank you after they say "yes!"  Haha!  Or call a few friends you haven't talked to in a while if you need to complete your ten “thank you's” for that day!  That's fine!  Ten “thank you's” a day for 22 days!

Thank you for reading this and thank you for being a part of my life!

Sending love and light,

Peej

Change has to happen! The clock is constantly moving... Can you imagine what our world would be like if the clock stopped, or so much as had the option to stop and go whenever it was clever? Change is a necessity, sometimes it is so hard to let go and move forward. Because when we let go, it forces an energy shift upon us, and that is unfamiliar. Sometimes we aren't prepared for it, or even worse, someone makes the choice for us, which activates the fear energy within our souls. You're familiar with that saying, ask and you shall receive, right? Well, ask your Angels to guide you and assist you in this time of change, and give you the strength and courage to transform and have faith, and know that with change gives birth to a new life style or way of doing things, a new beginning. Expand your wings and fly. You are awesome! Sending love and light, 
 Peej